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Expectations

See those two snazzy kids in the background?  That is my brother-in-law, Zach, and my sister, Noelle.

Doesn’t Cedar fit nicely between them?  I think so.  Next Christmas, they will have a babe that size!

In fact, their wee one shares the same due date as Cedar.  What are the chances?  I think they are so frugal they matched the dates to get all the right hand-me-downs. 

Norah has already begun advising the happy parents-to-be on how to give birth.  Complete with demonstrations.  “It’s easy.  You just squat in the water and Uncle Zach helps the baby swim to the top.” 

I think I’m more excited about my one and only sister giving birth than I was about doing it myself!  Noelle attended both of my births.  I’m thrilled to be able to watch her begin her own journey to motherhood. 

Stay tuned.  More to come on the Noelle/Zach pregnancy!  Well, unless they tell me not to blog about them…

ETA:  One of the first things Noelle has learned is that US employers are not required to provide paid maternity leave.  Employees are required to use sick/vacation days or go on short-term disability.  The US is one of four countries that doesn’t provide paid leave to new mamas.  The others are Swaziland, Lesotho, and Papua New Guinea.  Want to do something about that?  Check out momsrising.

Attention locals!

I’m enrolling for a 6-week comprehensive childbirth course to begin in mid-February.  I need students, please. 

Classes will meet once a week in the evening.  Students will receive a huge childbirth book, a tote-bag, 8 relaxation and hypnosis CDs, a birth partner booklet with “cheat sheets” and lots more.  This is a Hypnobabies class series which will teach you how to prepare for an easy, comfortable birthing.  Even if you’re not sure about the hypnosis part (which I was completely skeptical about at first, too), you’ll benefit so much from the nutrition, exercise, positioning, and consumer information.  I’m very proud to teach this fantastic series.    

I cannot say it enough:  Cedar’s birth was so incredibly relaxed (and short) thanks to these tools. 

Please email me at j_byers[at]bellsouth[dot]net to reserve your spot.  I can only take five couples!

A great start to the new year

A VBAC homebirth. 

Starring a strong mama and a proud papa. 

The debut of a new soul.

Standing ovation.

Hypno-Tip: Turning a Breech Baby with Hypnosis

A breech presentation is a tricky situation.  Especially in upstate SC.  To my knowledge, the closest care provider willing to vaginally deliver a breech baby is in Asheville or Bamburg.  There may be a few “underground” midwives as well.  But should you choose to have a hospital birth, you won’t find local options other than cesarean.  It is a shame.  In Sweden, 52% of breech babies are delivered vaginally with no statistical difference in outcome. 

I’ve often wondered what I would do if I found myself with a breech presentation.  First line of defense:  do everything possible to get the baby to turn! 

Only about 5% of all babies are breech at term. There are many suggestions for turning a breech baby physically, such as swimming, using a slant board, massage, moxibustion, pelvic tilt, etc.  

Another excellent resource is the Spinning Babies website which has information on turning babies in several challenging positions.

In addition to these techniques, we have another amazing tool that helps breech babies turn to the head-down position – our own powerful minds! Since the baby in utero is part of the mother, it is registered as so by the subconscious mind, which can be directed to make changes in the mother’s body. Release of fears that can constrict muscles is also used in hypnosis sessions, to help the mother relax and allow her baby to turn. The body is controlled completely by the mind, which is how our Hypnobabies moms can use hypnosis to stop-preterm labor, eliminate nausea and insomnia and of course, create a much easier and more comfortable childbirth experience. Using hypnosis to turn breech babies has been more successful than using other techniques alone. In a study done at a prominent university, 81% of the babies turned to vertex position with the use of hypnosis.  See study abstract at the bottom of this post.

At Hypnobabies, we suggest all women consider how powerful their mind is and use it during pregnancy, birthing, and postpartum to enhance their comfort, health and safety, as well as that of their precious baby.  Your mind can direct your body in such a positive way–use it!  If your baby is breech, you can find a well-trained hypnotherapist in your area or visit Hypnobabies for information on our Turn Your Breech Baby CD and Mp3 tracks.

Turn, baby, turn!

Design:  Prospective case series compared with historical, matched comparison group.
Subjects: One hundred pregnant women whose fetuses were in breech position at 37 to 40 weeks’ gestation and a matched comparison group of women with similar obstetrical and sociodemographic parameters derived from databases for other studies from the same time period and geographical areas.
Intervention: The intervention group received hypnosis with suggestions for general relaxation with release of fear and anxiety. While in the hypnotic state women were asked for the reasons why their baby was in the breech presentation. As much hypnosis was provided as was convenient and possible for the women until they were delivered of the baby or the baby converted to the vertex position.
Main Outcome Variables: A successful conversion for the intervention group was scored when the baby spontaneously converted to the vertex position before delivery or successful cephalic version. The conversion rate of the intervention group was compared with the comparison group who received standard obstetrical care without the opportunity for hypnosis.
Results: Eighty-one percent of the fetuses in the intervention group converted to vertex presentation compared with 48% of those in the comparison group. This difference was statistically significant.
Conclusions: Motivated subjects can be influenced by a skilled Hypnotherapist in such a manner that their fetuses have a higher incidence of conversion from breech to vertex presentation. Psychophysiological factors may influence the breech presentation and may explain this increased frequency of conversion to vertex presentation.
From Archives of Family Medicine, Vol. 3, Oct. 1994 Hypnosis and Conversion of the Breech to the Vertex Presentation Lewis E. Mehl, MD, PhD Dept. of Psychiatry Univ. of Vermont College of Medicine, Burlington

Turning Wood

My husband got a lathe for Christmas and he has been a busy woodsy man.

The honey dipper with the reddish handle is from fallen cedar we found in my parent’s forest.  The dark wood salt cellar is from Scott’s grandfather–some black walnut from his forest.  The other honey dippers are from pine and redwood.  He also made a stunning wooden scoop from cedar.  Everything is finished with local beeswax.  Not sure yet what I’m doing with the tiny pine scoop pictured.  I’m keeping catnip in the salt cellar. 

Why do I need catnip, you ask.  Catnip is an excellent and safe herb for babies.  It soothes digestions, helps with achy gums, and (bonus!) acts as instant lullaby.  I keep it growing in abundance. 

Another woodsy feature to our holidays:  Norah wanted to give a gift to Cedar.  So Scott cut some baby blocks with nice grips for baby hands and Norah spent hours sanding them.  Then they coated them with beeswax.  Such a sweet gift. 

I love my crafty woodsman.  Even when his shoes fill with sawdust and spill out onto the bedroom floor.  Even when he stays in his workshop until 3am.

the incomprehensible

a song of mary

somewhere it being yesterday.
i a maiden in my mother’s house.
the animals silent outside.
is morning.
princes sitting on thrones in the east
studying the incomprehensible heavens.
joseph carving a table somewhere
in another place.
i watching my mother.
i smiling an ordinary smile

–Lucille Clifton

4 Month Comparison

Cedar and Norah at 4 months

A postpartum snapshot

I keep flashing back to this one moment after Cedar was born.  It was afternoon the next day.  I’m in bed wrapped in a sarong.  Scott is in the kitchen cooking something yummy for me and Carey just brought me some Mother’s Milk Tea. 

My dear friends are here.  Abby is one on side of the bed.  Carey is at the foot.  Cassandra is giving me an acupuncture treatment.  My Aunt Helen is meeting Cedar for the first time in another room.  Norah rushes in, sees the needles in her mommy and worries we’ll put them in her. 

We laugh and chat while the needles do their thing.  I, of course, do something clutzy.  I run my fingers through my hair forgetting there is a needle in my scalp and pull it right out. 

I don’t know why this moment stays with me so vividly.  The sense of community, perhaps?  A gift that motherhood has given me beyond my children is this new community of women. 

A rich icing on the cake.

Wordless Wednesday–waiting for Mimi

More on Cord Clamping

Here is an excellent article  from Academic OB/GYN on why delayed cord clamping should be the standard of care.